A lot of emotions are going through me. Sadness, Anger, Confusion, Heart-ache... the list goes on. My main focus however is, of all things, beyond my control. I can not stand "boys" who do not know how to treat a woman. I refer to these guys as "boys" because that's what they are. Immature, fickle, thick-headed "boys" who apparently have watched too many movies and television on what it is to be a guy. This is why "nice guys" never get far with women. These "boys" have treated women so poorly, that "good girls" become bitches towards all men due to the fact they have been mistreated by guys that don't know what it is to be a gentleman.
It's a vicious cycle all around though; most guys tend to be jerks but there are nice guys. Women find nice guys to be boring after awhile and turn them into jerks. Women find themselves attracted to jerks because they think "he can change" and "they're exciting". However the jerk mistreats the girl and she becomes disenfranchised to all men once they part, making a nice guy having "a snowball's chance in hell" with any of these women. Any woman will say that she wants "someone who will treat her good" but... when you have been treated like dirt for so long, sometimes being with a genuine person feels so foreign. Human beings like what is familiar to them. Whether it be luxury or mistreatment, if it's familiar then that is what feels comfortable to them. Look at ex-cons; a human being who has been incarcerated for so long, once paroled is more likely to commit crime just to return to prison. Does it make sense, No, but it happens because human nature gravitates to what is familiar to them.
Once again, beyond my control but it's the reason I'm upset. In a perfect world, all men would be thought what it is to be a gentleman and how to treat a lady. Women wouldn't have to categorize men as pigs and be scared when a genuine, nice guy showed interest in them. However in a perfect world there would be no war, no one would be homeless or go hungry and love would never end. I can wish for a perfect world but know that I can only influence the world around me, in my own private little life.
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